{"id":11733,"date":"2025-11-25T03:34:34","date_gmt":"2025-11-25T11:34:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themendproject.com\/?page_id=11733"},"modified":"2025-12-16T10:09:13","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T18:09:13","slug":"recommended-resources","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/staging.themendproject.com\/es\/recommended-resources\/","title":{"rendered":"Resources V2"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>The MEND Project Recommended Resources<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"\">The MEND Project often refers to resources outside our organization that provide additional support. We&#8217;ve compiled a list for you to access those resources when needed. We hope you find these additional resources insightful and empowering!<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-books-section\" style=\"\">Books<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-podcasts-section\" style=\"\">Podcasts<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-advice-section\" style=\"\">Advice<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-support-groups-section\" style=\"\">Support Groups<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"\">BOOKS<\/p>\n<p><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Lundy Bancroft<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft\u2014a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men\u2014uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>He says he loves you. So&#8230;why does he do that?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men\u2014and change your life. In the book Why Does He Do That? You will learn about:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The early warning signs of abuse<\/li>\n<li>The nature of abusive thinking<\/li>\n<li>Myths about abusers<\/li>\n<li>Ten abusive personality types<\/li>\n<li>The role of drugs and alcohol<\/li>\n<li>What you can fix, and what you can\u2019t<\/li>\n<li>And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap <\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Ross Rosenberg<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap completely rewrites what we know and understand about codependents, narcissists, and the predictable resulting narcissistically abusive relationships. It is an invaluable and much-heralded breakout book for laypeople and mental health professionals.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>Since the dawn of civilization, people seeking intimacy have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn into romantic relationships, not by what they see, feel, and think, but more by invisible forces. Human Magnet Syndrome compelled relationships predictably begin with a dreamlike \u201clove explosion,\u201d which predictably unfolds into a painful \u201cseesaw\u201d of love, pain, hope, and disappointment. Then, like clockwork, the codependent\u2019s soulmate dream lover predictably and inevitably transforms into the narcissist of their nightmares.<\/p>\n<p>Ross Rosenberg gives \u201ccodependency\u201d and \u201ccodependent\u201d their much-needed retirement in this edition. Antiquated, inaccurate, and unnecessarily limiting, these shaming terms cause more harm than help.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Bessel Van der Kolk, M.D.<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cEssential reading for anyone interested in understanding and treating traumatic stress and the scope of its impact on society.\u201d \u2014Alexander McFarlane, Director of the Centre for Traumatic Stress Studies<\/p>\n<p>A pioneering researcher transforms our understanding of trauma and offers a bold new paradigm for healing in this New York Times bestseller<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world\u2019s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers\u2019 capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments\u2014from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga\u2014that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain\u2019s natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk\u2019s own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal\u2014and offers new hope for reclaiming lives.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence\u2013from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Judith Herman, M.D.<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>The groundbreaking work on trauma that remains a \u201cclassic for our generation\u201d (Bessel van der Kolk, MD, author of The Body Keeps the Score)<\/p>\n<p>Trauma and Recovery is the foundational text on understanding trauma survivors.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>By placing individual experience in a political frame, psychiatrist Judith L. Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.<\/p>\n<p>This edition includes a new epilogue by the author assessing what has\u2014and hasn\u2019t\u2014changed in understanding and treating trauma over the last three decades.<\/p>\n<p>Hailed by the New York Times as \u201cone of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud,\u201d Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand how we heal.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Dr. Henry Cloud &amp; Dr. John Townsend<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Boundaries is the book that&#8217;s helped over 4 million people learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Does your life feel like it&#8217;s out of control? Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone&#8217;s requests. Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others&#8217; feelings and problems. Or perhaps you focus so much on being loving and unselfish that you&#8217;ve forgotten your own limits and limitations. Or maybe it&#8217;s all of the above.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>In the New York Times bestseller, Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Now updated and expanded for the digital age, this book continues to help millions of people around the world answer these tough questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Can I set limits and still be a loving person?<\/li>\n<li>What are legitimate boundaries?<\/li>\n<li>How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn&#8217;t control me?<\/li>\n<li>What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?<\/li>\n<li>How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?<\/li>\n<li>Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?<\/li>\n<li>How do boundaries relate to mutual submission within marriage?<\/li>\n<li>Aren\u2019t boundaries selfish?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to let your life spiral out of control. Discover how boundaries make life better today!<\/p>\n<p>Plus, check out Boundaries family collection of books dedicated to key areas of life &#8211; dating, marriage, raising kids, parenting teens, and leadership. Workbooks and Spanish editions are also available.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Lysa TerKeurst<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Relationships are wonderful . . . until they&#8217;re not.<\/p>\n<p>Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries&#8211;and, when necessary, say goodbye.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that&#8217;s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.<\/p>\n<p>After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.<\/p>\n<p>In these pages, Lysa will help you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.<\/li>\n<li>Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you<\/li>\n<li>Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.<\/li>\n<li>Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.<\/li>\n<li>Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.<\/li>\n<li>Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa&#8217;s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You&#8217;ll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren&#8217;t just a good idea, they&#8217;re a God idea.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect us from Violence<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Gavin de Becker<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>As seen on TikTok, protect yourself by learning how to trust \u2014 and act on \u2014 your instincts with the &#8220;empowering&#8221; (Boston Globe) #1 bestselling guide to personal safety, from security expert Gavin de Becker.<\/p>\n<p>A carjacker lurking in a shopping mall parking lot. An abusive husband pounding on the door. A disgruntled employee brandishing a gun. These days, no one is safe from the specter of violence. But according to Gavin de Becker, everyone can feel safer, act safer, be safer \u2014 if they learn how to listen to their own sixth sense about danger.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>De Becker has made a career of protecting people and predicting violent behavior. His firm handles security for many of the leading figures in Hollywood and Silicon Valley, and his computerized risk-assessment system helps analyze threats to members of Congress and the Supreme Court. Now, in this unprecedented guide, de Becker shares his expertise with everyone. Covering all the dangerous situations people typically face \u2014 street crime, domestic abuse, violence in the workplace \u2014 de Becker provides real-life examples and offers specific advice on restraining orders, self-defense, and more. But the key to self-protection, he demonstrates, is learning how to trust our own intuitions. For everyone who&#8217;s ever felt threatened, this book is essential reading.<\/p>\n<p>*Note: This is a triggering read for some\u2026 but it is a powerful teaching lesson to trust your gut and instincts. The internal messages our body communicates to us are a gift from God to keep us safe.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The Verbally Abusive Relationship<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Dr. Patricia Evans<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>You deserve respect.<\/p>\n<p>In this fully expanded and updated third edition of the bestselling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it. You&#8217;ll get more of the answers you need to recognize abuse when it happens, respond to abusers safely and appropriately, and most important, lead a happier, healthier life.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>In two all-new chapters, Evans reveals the Outside Stresses driving the rise in verbal abuse &#8211; and shows you how you can mitigate the devastating effects on your relationships. She also outlines the Levels of Abuse that characterize this kind of behavior &#8211; from subtle, insidious put-downs that can erode your self-esteem to full-out tantrums of name-calling, screaming, and threatening that can escalate into physical abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Drawing from hundreds of real situations suffered by real people just like you, Evans offers strategies, sample scripts, and action plans designed to help you deal with the abuse &#8211; and the abuser.<\/p>\n<p>This timely new edition of The Verbally Abusive Relationship puts you on the road to recognizing and responding to verbal abuse, one crucial step at a time!<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">On the Threshold of Hope<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Diane Mandt Langberg<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>On the Threshold of Hope offers hope and healing to men and women who have been traumatized by sexual abuse. Dr. Langberg&#8217;s insights and the quotations from many survivors assure readers that they are not alone and that Christ, the Redeemer, can heal their deep wounds. Through stories, Scripture, questions, and encouragement, Dr. Langberg walks with survivors on the road to healing through Christ&#8217;s love and power. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Diane Langberg<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>This powerful book deals with the issue of how Christians, especially those called to counsel, can help survivors of sexual abuse find healing and hope. From 20 years of experience, the author demonstrates how counselors can walk alongside people deeply wounded by sexual abuse as they face the truth about who they are, who their abuser was, and who God is as the Savior and Redeemer of all life. Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse issues a strong call to the church at large to walk with survivors through the long dark nights of their healing.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Leslie Vernick<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Leslie Vernick, counselor and social worker, has witnessed the devastating effects of emotional abuse. Many, including many in the church, have not addressed this form of destruction in families and relationships because it is difficult to talk about. With godly guidance and practical experience, Vernick offers an empathetic approach to recognizing an emotionally destructive relationship and addresses the symptoms and the damage with biblical tools. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>Readers will understand how to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Reveal behaviors that are meant to control, punish, and hurt<\/li>\n<li>Confront and speak truth when the timing is right<\/li>\n<li>Determine when to keep trying, when to get out<\/li>\n<li>Get safe and stay safe<\/li>\n<li>Build an identity in Christ<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This practical and thorough resource will help countless individuals, families, and churches view abuse from God&#8217;s perspective and understand how vital it is for victims to embrace His freedom from the physical, emotional, spiritual, and generational effects of emotionally destructive relationshi<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item START --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">It\u2019s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People <\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">By Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D.<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can\u2019t see, from psychologist and preeminent narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not always easy to tell when you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist. One day they draw you in with their confidence and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering, What could I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals in It&#8217;s Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Just as a tiger can\u2019t change its stripes, a narcissist won\u2019t stop manipulating and invalidating you. To heal in the aftermath of their abuse and protect yourself from future harm, you first have to accept that you are not to blame. Deeply compassionate and reveDINProry, It\u2019s Not You examines how narcissists hijack our wellbeing and offers a healing path forward.<\/p>\n<p>Drawing on more than 20 years of studying, teaching, and helping clients navigate the landscape of narcissism, Dr. Durvasula unpacks the oft-misunderstood personality, showing how to identify the telltale signs that you may be dealing with a narcissist and protect yourself from their toxic influence. Along the way, you\u2019ll learn how to become gaslight resistant, chip away at the trauma bonds that keep us stuck in these cycles, grieve the losses, create realistic boundaries, learn the fine art of discernment, and recover your sense of self after years of invalidation.<\/p>\n<p>Healing and thriving after or even during a narcissistic relationship can be challenging, but it is possible. It&#8217;s Not You shows that the first step is to stop trying to change the narcissistic person, stop blaming yourself, and start giving yourself permission to foster your autonomy and sense of self outside of this relationship.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">PODCASTS<\/p>\n<p><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Flying Free<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>The Flying Free podcast offers a Christ-centered perspective on emotional and spiritual abuse that protects and honors women. Tune in each week to hear conversations with abuse advocates and fellow survivors who will walk with you on your journey, offering hope and healing that will change your life.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Surviving Narcissism<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">with Dr. Les Carter<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Life with a narcissist is challenging, and Dr. Les Carter is here to assist. Whether you are feeling frustrated due to a narcissist&#8217;s inability to blend well or you are feeling constantly invalidated by their need for control and their lack of empathy, Dr. C is your resource. He is committed to helping people become part of Team Healthy, which focuses on DRC: dignity, respect, and civility. In each of our episodes we will contrast the narcissistic patterns of life to the ways of Team Healthy.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">with Dr. David Hawkins<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Are you struggling with a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship? Best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. David Hawkins explores the complex dynamics of narcissism, practical tools to help you find clarity, healing, and hope. Dr. Hawkings tackles the issues many couples face but rarely find effective help for, including narcissistic abuse, spiritual and financial abuse, secondary abuse in the church, sex addiction, divorce, and separation. Whether you\u2019re trying to rebuild your relationship or recover from emotional harm, this podcast offers professional guidance and encouragement for your journey to healthier connections.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">ADVICE<\/p>\n<p><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">The National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Live and trained operators who offer emotional support and resources.Your Local Domestic Violence Agency-Local agencies may be able to offer you emergency shelter or access to counselors or advocates at a marginal fee. Do you need to make a safety plan? They can help. Some agencies have access to legal advice or attorneys on a pro bono basis.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Coercive Control Consulting<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Dr. Christine Cochiolla is a clinician, coach, and survivor who specializes in the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims of Coercive Control \/ Narcissistic Abuse. She and her team support victims-survivors before escape, after escape, navigating family court, and most imperatively, how best to support children harmed by the coercive controller. She has a comprehensive website with advice for navigating the court system, how to present yourself in the best light as the protective parent with court personnel, and how to support your children when one parent is a coercive controller.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Living Well and Living Free Foundation<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Dr. Ramona Probasco is a licensed clinician and survivor. Upon request, they will make available a court tool book of dos and don\u2019ts to navigate the court system. They also offer a grant application process to provide special outings to amusement parks with your children at reduced or no cost. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">NO MORE<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>NO MORE is a website with countless resources for supportive organizations that address a vast variety of needs related to domestic violence, including a global list of shelters for temporary housing.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Wings for Justice<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>Wings for Justice educates and encourages survivors to advocate for their children and protect their constitutional rights within the court system. If you cannot afford an attorney, Wings for Justice offers help to navigate representing yourself at affordable prices.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Domesticshelters.org<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>This website offers countless articles and a national registry for domestic violence shelters.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Aimee Says<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>24\/7 ChatGPT Advice and AI Support for People Healing from Controlling or Abusive Relationships. Confidential, judgment-free guidance for people suffering narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, or relationship abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you\u2019re questioning your relationship, coping with narcissistic or emotional abuse, or navigating post-separation abuse \u2014 Aimee provides private, 24\/7 support to help you make sense of your experience and take your next steps. For example, you can insert the offender\u2019s text messages and ask Aimie how you should respond. She will craft a polite but direct response while leaving out emotions that might compromise the court\u2019s perception of you. You can get help preparing for court and so much more.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">SUPPORT GROUPS<\/p>\n<p>These support groups are an effective alternative to individual therapy sessions at a nominal fee.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Christian Support Groups for Women<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Flying Free<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>For survivors who are in an abusive relationship. They write, \u201cA lifeline of education, coaching, and support for Christian women experiencing emotional and spiritual abuse in their marriages.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Flying Higher<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>A transformational mentorship program for divorced Christian women who are ready to move forward from emotional and spiritual abuse. <\/p>\n<p>Both groups offer coaching, a private forum of fellow survivors who are non-judgmental and supportive and courses specific to your stage of healing. There is a nominal fee. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><a href=\"javascript:void(0)\">Read More<\/a><!-- Item END --><!-- ############################ --><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Secular Support Group<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- ############################ --><!-- Item Start --><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\">Narcissist Apocalypse<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"\"><\/h4>\n<p><span><\/p>\n<p>The Narcissist Apocalypse Community is a non-judgemental group of survivors that are dedicated to education, healing, and growth. They write, \u201cWe believe in the power of group support and have seen the growth of our members first hand. 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We've compiled a list for you to access those resources when needed. We hope you find these additional resources insightful and empowering!<\/span><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><div class=\"resources-menu\">\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-books-section\" style=\"\">Books<\/a><\/li>\t\n<li><a href=\"#resources-podcasts-section\" style=\"\">Podcasts<\/a><\/li>\t\t\n<li><a href=\"#resources-advice-section\" style=\"\">Advice<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#resources-support-groups-section\" style=\"\">Support Groups<\/a><\/li>\t\n<\/ul>\t\n\t\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7685445\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7685446\" style=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width resources-custom\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18e240d6309\" id=\"resources-books-section\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18e240d2204\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-18e22072f31\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element resources-title-section color-gold text-center\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19aff0cadd8\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-19aff4fd1f8\" style=\"\">BOOKS<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Lundy Bancroft<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft\u2014a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men\u2014uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men\u2014and change your life. In the book Why Does He Do That? You will learn about:\n<\/p><ul>\n<li>The early warning signs of abuse<\/li>\t\n<li>The nature of abusive thinking<\/li>\n<li>Myths about abusers<\/li>\n<li>Ten abusive personality types<\/li>\n<li>The role of drugs and alcohol<\/li>\n<li>What you can fix, and what you can\u2019t<\/li>\n<li>And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\n\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap <\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Ross Rosenberg<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p><i>The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap<\/i> completely rewrites what we know and understand about codependents, narcissists, and the predictable resulting narcissistically abusive relationships. It is an invaluable and much-heralded breakout book for laypeople and mental health professionals.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>Since the dawn of civilization, people seeking intimacy have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn into romantic relationships, not by what they see, feel, and think, but more by invisible forces. Human Magnet Syndrome compelled relationships predictably begin with a dreamlike \u201clove explosion,\u201d which predictably unfolds into a painful \u201cseesaw\u201d of love, pain, hope, and disappointment. Then, like clockwork, the codependent\u2019s soulmate dream lover predictably and inevitably transforms into the narcissist of their nightmares.<\/p>\n<p>Ross Rosenberg gives \u201ccodependency\u201d and \u201ccodependent\u201d their much-needed retirement in this edition. Antiquated, inaccurate, and unnecessarily limiting, these shaming terms cause more harm than help.\n<\/p>\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma<\/h3>\t\n\t<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Bessel Van der Kolk, M.D.<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\t\n\t\n<p>\u201cEssential reading for anyone interested in understanding and treating traumatic stress and the scope of its impact on society.\u201d<br> \n\u2014Alexander McFarlane, Director of the Centre for Traumatic Stress Studies<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>A pioneering researcher transforms our understanding of trauma and offers a bold new paradigm for healing in this New York Times bestseller\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world\u2019s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers\u2019 capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments\u2014from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga\u2014that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain\u2019s natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk\u2019s own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal\u2014and offers new hope for reclaiming lives.\n<\/p>\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence\u2013from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Judith Herman, M.D.<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nThe groundbreaking work on trauma that remains a \u201cclassic for our generation\u201d (Bessel van der Kolk, MD, author of <i>The Body Keeps the Score<\/i>)\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p><i>Trauma and Recovery<\/i> is the foundational text on understanding trauma survivors.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>By placing individual experience in a political frame, psychiatrist Judith L. Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war.\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\nThis edition includes a new epilogue by the author assessing what has\u2014and hasn\u2019t\u2014changed in understanding and treating trauma over the last three decades.\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>Hailed by the <i>New York Times<\/i> as \u201cone of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud,\u201d Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand how we heal.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Dr. Henry Cloud &amp; Dr. John Townsend<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\n<i>Boundaries<\/i> is the book that's helped over 4 million people learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of their lives.\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>Does your life feel like it's out of control? Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone's requests. Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others' feelings and problems. Or perhaps you focus so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits and limitations. Or maybe it's all of the above.\n\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>In the <i>New York Times<\/i> bestseller, <i>Boundaries<\/i>, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.\n\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\nNow updated and expanded for the digital age, this book continues to help millions of people around the world answer these tough questions:\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<ul>\n<li>Can I set limits and still be a loving person?<\/li>\t\n<li>What are legitimate boundaries?<\/li>\t\n<li>How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn't control me?<\/li>\t\n<li>What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?<\/li>\t\n<li>How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?<\/li>\n<li>Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?<\/li>\t\n<li>How do boundaries relate to mutual submission within marriage?<\/li>\t\n<li>Aren\u2019t boundaries selfish?<\/li>\t\n<\/ul>\t\n\t\n<p>You don\u2019t have to let your life spiral out of control. Discover how boundaries make life better today!<\/p>\n\t\n<p>Plus, check out <i>Boundaries<\/i> family collection of books dedicated to key areas of life - dating, marriage, raising kids, parenting teens, and leadership. Workbooks and Spanish editions are also available.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Lysa TerKeurst<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\t\n<p>\nRelationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nStop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.\t\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>\nIs it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that's no longer safe or sustainable? #1 <i>New York Times<\/i> bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.\t\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\nAfter thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nIn these pages, Lysa will help you:\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<ul>\n<li>Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.<\/li>\t\n<li>Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you<\/li>\t\n<li>Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.<\/li>\t\n<li>Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.<\/li>\t\n<li>Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.<\/li>\n<li>Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa's Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.<\/li>\t\n<\/ul>\t\n\t\n<p>You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a <i>God<\/i> idea.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect us from Violence<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Gavin de Becker<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\n\n<p>As seen on TikTok, protect yourself by learning how to trust \u2014 and act on \u2014 your instincts with the \"empowering\" <i>(Boston Globe)<\/i> #1 bestselling guide to personal safety, from security expert Gavin de Becker.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nA carjacker lurking in a shopping mall parking lot. An abusive husband pounding on the door. A disgruntled employee brandishing a gun. These days, no one is safe from the specter of violence. But according to Gavin de Becker, everyone can feel safer, act safer, be safer \u2014 if they learn how to listen to their own sixth sense about danger.\t\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>\nDe Becker has made a career of protecting people and predicting violent behavior. His firm handles security for many of the leading figures in Hollywood and Silicon Valley, and his computerized risk-assessment system helps analyze threats to members of Congress and the Supreme Court. Now, in this unprecedented guide, de Becker shares his expertise with everyone. Covering all the dangerous situations people typically face \u2014 street crime, domestic abuse, violence in the workplace \u2014 de Becker provides real-life examples and offers specific advice on restraining orders, self-defense, and more. But the key to self-protection, he demonstrates, is learning how to trust our own intuitions. For everyone who's ever felt threatened, this book is essential reading.\n\t\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\n*Note: This is a triggering read for some\u2026 but it is a powerful teaching lesson to trust your gut and instincts. The internal messages our body communicates to us are a gift from God to keep us safe.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The Verbally Abusive Relationship<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Dr. Patricia Evans<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\n\n<p>You deserve respect.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nIn this fully expanded and updated third edition of the bestselling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it. You'll get more of the answers you need to recognize abuse when it happens, respond to abusers safely and appropriately, and most important, lead a happier, healthier life.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>\nIn two all-new chapters, Evans reveals the Outside Stresses driving the rise in verbal abuse - and shows you how you can mitigate the devastating effects on your relationships. She also outlines the Levels of Abuse that characterize this kind of behavior - from subtle, insidious put-downs that can erode your self-esteem to full-out tantrums of name-calling, screaming, and threatening that can escalate into physical abuse.\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\nDrawing from hundreds of real situations suffered by real people just like you, Evans offers strategies, sample scripts, and action plans designed to help you deal with the abuse - and the abuser.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nThis timely new edition of <i>The Verbally Abusive Relationship<\/i> puts you on the road to recognizing and responding to verbal abuse, one crucial step at a time!\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">On the Threshold of Hope<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Diane Mandt Langberg<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\n\n<p>On the <i>Threshold of Hope<\/i> offers hope and healing to men and women who have been traumatized by sexual abuse. Dr. Langberg's insights and the quotations from many survivors assure readers that they are not alone and that Christ, the Redeemer, can heal their deep wounds. Through stories, Scripture, questions, and encouragement, Dr. Langberg walks with survivors on the road to healing through Christ's love and power. \n\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\n\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\n\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Diane Langberg<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\n\n<p>This powerful book deals with the issue of how Christians, especially those called to counsel, can help survivors of sexual abuse find healing and hope. From 20 years of experience, the author demonstrates how counselors can walk alongside people deeply wounded by sexual abuse as they face the truth about who they are, who their abuser was, and who God is as the Savior and Redeemer of all life. Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse issues a strong call to the church at large to walk with survivors through the long dark nights of their healing.\n\n\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\t\n\t\n\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Leslie Vernick<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\t\n\n<p>Leslie Vernick, counselor and social worker, has witnessed the devastating effects of emotional abuse. Many, including many in the church, have not addressed this form of destruction in families and relationships because it is difficult to talk about. With godly guidance and practical experience, Vernick offers an empathetic approach to recognizing an emotionally destructive relationship and addresses the symptoms and the damage with biblical tools. \n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>\nReaders will understand how to:\n<\/p>\n\n<ul>\n<li>Reveal behaviors that are meant to control, punish, and hurt<\/li>\n<li>Confront and speak truth when the timing is right<\/li>\t\n<li>Determine when to keep trying, when to get out<\/li>\t\n<li>Get safe and stay safe<\/li>\t\n<li>Build an identity in Christ<\/li>\t\n<\/ul>\t\n\n<p>\nThis practical and thorough resource will help countless individuals, families, and churches view abuse from God's perspective and understand how vital it is for victims to embrace His freedom from the physical, emotional, spiritual, and generational effects of emotionally destructive relationshi\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item START -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">It\u2019s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People <\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">By Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D.<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n\n<p>A transformative guide to protecting and healing yourself from the narcissism you can\u2019t see, from psychologist and preeminent narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula\n<\/p>\t\n\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<p>\nIt\u2019s not always easy to tell when you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist. One day they draw you in with their confidence and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering, What could I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani Durvasula reveals in It's Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing.\n<\/p>\n\n<p>\t\nJust as a tiger can\u2019t change its stripes, a narcissist won\u2019t stop manipulating and invalidating you. To heal in the aftermath of their abuse and protect yourself from future harm, you first have to accept that you are not to blame. Deeply compassionate and reveDINProry, It\u2019s Not You examines how narcissists hijack our wellbeing and offers a healing path forward.\t\n<\/p>\n\t\n<p>\nDrawing on more than 20 years of studying, teaching, and helping clients navigate the landscape of narcissism, Dr. Durvasula unpacks the oft-misunderstood personality, showing how to identify the telltale signs that you may be dealing with a narcissist and protect yourself from their toxic influence. Along the way, you\u2019ll learn how to become gaslight resistant, chip away at the trauma bonds that keep us stuck in these cycles, grieve the losses, create realistic boundaries, learn the fine art of discernment, and recover your sense of self after years of invalidation.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nHealing and thriving after or even during a narcissistic relationship can be challenging, but it is possible. It's Not You shows that the first step is to stop trying to change the narcissistic person, stop blaming yourself, and start giving yourself permission to foster your autonomy and sense of self outside of this relationship.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width resources-custom\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae925de56\" id=\"resources-podcasts-section\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19afddc8015\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae925ceb4\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element resources-title-section text-center\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19afddcf5cf\">\t<p data-css=\"tve-u-19ae794845a\" style=\"\">PODCASTS<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item item-white\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Flying Free<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>The Flying Free podcast offers a Christ-centered perspective on emotional and spiritual abuse that protects and honors women. Tune in each week to hear conversations with abuse advocates and fellow survivors who will walk with you on your journey, offering hope and healing that will change your life.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item item-white\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Surviving Narcissism<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">with Dr. Les Carter<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>Life with a narcissist is challenging, and Dr. Les Carter is here to assist. Whether you are feeling frustrated due to a narcissist's inability to blend well or you are feeling constantly invalidated by their need for control and their lack of empathy, Dr. C is your resource. He is committed to helping people become part of Team Healthy, which focuses on DRC: dignity, respect, and civility. In each of our episodes we will contrast the narcissistic patterns of life to the ways of Team Healthy.\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item item-white\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">with Dr. David Hawkins<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>Are you struggling with a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship? Best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. David Hawkins explores the complex dynamics of narcissism, practical tools to help you find clarity, healing, and hope. Dr. Hawkings tackles the issues many couples face but rarely find effective help for, including narcissistic abuse, spiritual and financial abuse, secondary abuse in the church, sex addiction, divorce, and separation. Whether you\u2019re trying to rebuild your relationship or recover from emotional harm, this podcast offers professional guidance and encouragement for your journey to healthier connections.\n\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width resources-custom\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19af79c8506\" id=\"resources-advice-section\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae91965bb\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae9185933\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element resources-title-section text-center\" style=\"background-color: rgba(241, 240, 240, 0) !important; --background-color: rgba(241, 240, 240, 0) !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7952913\">\t<p data-css=\"tve-u-19ae794845a\" style=\"\">ADVICE<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">The National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>Live and trained operators who offer emotional support and resources.\nYour Local Domestic Violence Agency-Local agencies may be able to offer you emergency shelter or access to counselors or advocates at a marginal fee. Do you need to make a safety plan? They can help. Some agencies have access to legal advice or attorneys on a pro bono basis.\n\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Coercive Control Consulting<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nDr. Christine Cochiolla is a clinician, coach, and survivor who specializes in the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims of Coercive Control \/ Narcissistic Abuse. She and her team support victims-survivors before escape, after escape, navigating family court, and most imperatively, how best to support children harmed by the coercive controller. She has a comprehensive website with advice for navigating the court system, how to present yourself in the best light as the protective parent with court personnel, and how to support your children when one parent is a coercive controller.\t\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Living Well and Living Free Foundation<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nDr. Ramona Probasco is a licensed clinician and survivor. Upon request, they will make available a court tool book of dos and don\u2019ts to navigate the court system. They also offer a grant application process to provide special outings to amusement parks with your children at reduced or no cost. \n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">NO MORE<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nNO MORE is a website with countless resources for supportive organizations that address a vast variety of needs related to domestic violence, including a global list of shelters for temporary housing.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Wings for Justice<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nWings for Justice educates and encourages survivors to advocate for their children and protect their constitutional rights within the court system. If you cannot afford an attorney, Wings for Justice offers help to navigate representing yourself at affordable prices.\n<\/p>\t\n<br>\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Domesticshelters.org<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>\nThis website offers countless articles and a national registry for domestic violence shelters.\n\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Aimee Says<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\"><\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>24\/7 ChatGPT Advice and AI Support for People Healing from Controlling or Abusive Relationships. Confidential, judgment-free guidance for people suffering narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, or relationship abuse.\n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\nWhether you\u2019re questioning your relationship, coping with narcissistic or emotional abuse, or navigating post-separation abuse \u2014 Aimee provides private, 24\/7 support to help you make sense of your experience and take your next steps. For example, you can insert the offender\u2019s text messages and ask Aimie how you should respond. She will craft a polite but direct response while leaving out emotions that might compromise the court\u2019s perception of you. You can get help preparing for court and so much more.\t\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width resources-custom\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19ae9198de8\" id=\"resources-support-groups-section\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19afddd3f28\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-19aff4e2db3\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element resources-title-section text-center\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19afddffe03\">\t<p data-css=\"tve-u-19ae794845a\" style=\"\">SUPPORT GROUPS<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element ml-0\" data-css=\"tve-u-19af79e4e88\" style=\"\">\t<p>These support groups are an effective alternative to individual therapy sessions at a nominal fee.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element ml-0\"><p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Christian Support Groups for Women<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item item-white\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Flying Free<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>For survivors who are in an abusive relationship. \nThey write, \u201cA lifeline of education, coaching, and support for Christian women experiencing emotional and spiritual abuse in their marriages.\u201d\n<\/p>\t\n<\/span>\n\t\n<span class=\"show-content hide\">\n\n<\/span>\t\n<a href=\"javascript:void(0)\" class=\"read-more hide\">Read More<\/a>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n<\/div><!-- Item END -->\n<!-- ############################ --><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\"><!-- ############################ -->\t\n<div class=\"item item-white\"><!-- Item Start -->\n<div class=\"title\">\n<h3 class=\"title-book\" style=\"\">Flying Higher<\/h3>\t\n<h4 class=\"author-book\" style=\"\">with Natalie Hoffman<\/h4>\t\t\n<\/div>\t\n\n<div class=\"content\">\n<span class=\"intro-content\">\n<p>A transformational mentorship program for divorced Christian women who are ready to move forward from emotional and spiritual abuse. \n<\/p>\t\n\t\n<p>\n<i>Both groups offer coaching, a private forum of fellow survivors who are non-judgmental and supportive and courses specific to your stage of healing. 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rgb(47,138,229); --tcb-local-color-f2bba: rgba(59,156,253,0.1); --tcb-local-color-f83d7: rgba(59,156,253,0.25); --tcb-local-color-trewq: rgba(59,156,253,0.3); --tcb-local-color-3d798: rgba(59,156,253,0.4); --tcb-local-color-poiuy: rgba(59,156,253,0.6); --tcb-local-color-418a6: rgba(59,156,253,0.12); --tcb-local-color-a941t: rgba(59,156,253,0.05); --tcb-local-color-1ad9d: rgba(46,204,96,0.1); --tcb-local-color-2dbcc: rgb(131,188,123); border: none; --tve-applied-border: none; border-radius: 4px; overflow: hidden; --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-font-size: 14px; --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); --tve-font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; --tve-letter-spacing: 1px; --tve-line-height: 1.8em; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.24) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0.24) !important; margin-top: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 14px !important; padding: 12px 14px !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_radio:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_radio_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { --tcb-local-color-30800: rgb(47,138,229); --tcb-local-color-f2bba: rgba(59,156,253,0.1); --tcb-local-color-trewq: rgba(59,156,253,0.3); --tcb-local-color-frty6: rgba(59,156,253,0.45); --tcb-local-color-flktr: rgba(59,156,253,0.8); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); --tve-font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; --tve-font-size: 14px; --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-letter-spacing: 1px; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_checkbox:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_checkbox_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { --tcb-local-color-30800: rgb(47,138,229); --tcb-local-color-f2bba: rgba(59,156,253,0.1); --tcb-local-color-trewq: rgba(59,156,253,0.3); --tcb-local-color-frty6: rgba(59,156,253,0.45); --tcb-local-color-flktr: rgba(59,156,253,0.8); --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-font-size: 14px; --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); --tve-font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; --tve-letter-spacing: 1px; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_checkbox:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_checkbox_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve-input-option-text { --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif); color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)) !important; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px) !important; font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal) ) !important; letter-spacing: var(--tve-letter-spacing,1px) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_radio:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_radio_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve-input-option-text { font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal) ) !important; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px) !important; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)) !important; letter-spacing: var(--tve-letter-spacing,1px) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_dropdown:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) span { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif); letter-spacing: var(--tve-letter-spacing,1px); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.8em); }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_radio:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_radio_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve-checkmark { --tcb-radio-size: 14px; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_checkbox:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_checkbox_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve-checkmark { --tcb-checkbox-size: 14px; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_radio:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_radio_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item):hover { background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.08) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0.08) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_checkbox:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tve_lg_checkbox_wrapper:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item):hover { background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.08) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0.08) !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_radio:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { padding: 0px !important; margin-top: 18px !important; margin-bottom: 18px !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_checkbox:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { margin-top: 18px !important; margin-bottom: 18px !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .thrv_text_element[data-label-for]:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 5px 5px 14px !important; background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.08), rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.08)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(0,0,0,0.08),rgba(0,0,0,0.08)) !important; border-radius: 4px !important; margin-top: 14px !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .thrv_text_element[data-label-for]:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) .tcb-plain-text { font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; font-size: 13px !important; color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-default-upload-icon { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-local-color-bcd13,var(--tcb-local-color-100c2)); --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-local-color-bcd13,var(--tcb-local-color-100c2)); float: none; z-index: 3; position: relative; font-size: 50px; width: 50px; height: 50px; --tve-icon-size: 50px; background-image: none !important; padding: 0px !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_file > .tve-content-box-background { border-radius: 4px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.24) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0.24) !important; border: none !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_file.tve-state-active > .tve-content-box-background { background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.3) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0.3) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-default-upload-text { color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; font-size: 12px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-link { border: 4px solid var(--tcb-local-color-48994); border-radius: 100px; overflow: hidden; letter-spacing: var(--tve-letter-spacing,2px); background-color: transparent !important; padding: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-link span { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); text-transform: var(--tve-text-transform,none); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn { --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-text-transform: none; --tve-font-size: 12px; --tve-letter-spacing: 2px; --tcb-local-color-d7ffe: rgb(19,114,211); --tcb-local-color-48994: var(--tcb-local-color-100c2); float: none; --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-top: 15px !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-link { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,12px) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn:hover .tcb-button-link { background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.18), rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.18)) !important; border: 4px solid var(--tcb-local-color-48994) !important; background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-48994) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn:hover .tcb-button-link span { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn:hover { --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; }body:not(.tcb-states) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-link::before { background-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); background-attachment: scroll; background-image: none; background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat; background-size: auto; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-link::after { background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-48994) !important; background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.18), rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.18)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-file-upload-btn .tcb-button-text { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_file { padding-top: 40px !important; padding-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tcb-default-upload-text .tcb-plain-text { letter-spacing: 0px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; font-size: 12px !important; text-transform: uppercase !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18e2434e5f0\"] { background-color: var(--tcb-color-1) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-1) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-1) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18e2434ea1a\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 1160px; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18e2435e716\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 500; font-family: \"DINPro\" !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255) !important; font-size: 33px !important; line-height: 1.35em !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18e2435e716\"] strong { font-weight: 500 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18e243655f4\"] { padding-top: 34px !important; padding-bottom: 17px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18e2436e3a9\"] { --tve-alignment: center; float: none; max-width: 763px; padding-left: 50px !important; padding-right: 50px !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 763px !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve_lg_regular_input:not(.tcb-excluded-from-group-item) { margin-bottom: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1894dd61e84\"] { max-width: 1200px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ced46cebd\"] { max-width: 1200px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1894f68af4e\"] { max-width: 1200px; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button .tcb-button-link span { font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button { --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); --tve-letter-spacing: 2px; --tcb-local-color-2818e: rgb(19,114,211); --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-alignment: center; float: none; --tcb-local-color-c57b7: var(--tcb-local-color-100c2) !important; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button .tcb-button-link { letter-spacing: var(--tve-letter-spacing,2px); padding: 18px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-c57b7) !important; background-image: none !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button:hover .tcb-button-link { background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.08), rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.08)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-c57b7) !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button.tve-state-active .tcb-button-link { background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.4), rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.4)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(0,0,0,0.4),rgba(0,0,0,0.4)) !important; --background-size: auto auto !important; --background-position: 50% 50% !important; --background-attachment: scroll !important; --background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(0,0,0,0.4),rgba(0,0,0,0.4)) !important; }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button.tve-state-active .tcb-button-link span { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button.tve-state-active { --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); }:not(#tve) #lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button.tve-state-active .tcb-button-link { background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-c57b7) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-local-color-c57b7) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-c57b7) !important; }#lg-ltkb5u8c .tve-form-button.tve-color-set { --tcb-local-color-c57b7: rgb(255,245,221) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-199a14f4de9\"] { color: rgb(155, 124, 59) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(155,124,59) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(155,124,59) !important; font-size: 16px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19ae76656bb\"] { text-transform: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7685445\"] { background-image: url(\"https:\/\/staging.themendproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image.jpg.webp\") !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: fixed !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --background-image: url(\"https:\/\/staging.themendproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image.jpg.webp\") !important; --background-size: cover !important; --background-position: 50% 50% !important; --background-attachment: fixed !important; --background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: url(\"https:\/\/staging.themendproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image.jpg.webp\") !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7685446\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 1160px; min-height: 362px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19ae794845a\"] { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; color: rgb(201, 166, 84) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(201,166,84) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(201,166,84) !important; font-size: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19ae7952913\"] { background-color: rgb(241, 240, 240) !important; --background-color: rgb(241,240,240) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(241,240,240) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19ae9185933\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 1000px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19ae91965bb\"] { background-color: 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